Don't be affraid to make them tight, I doubt you will strip the threads without puting some serious force on them. I would take the nut off and check the flare fiting inside the control valve and also check the flare on the hard line to make sure they aren't messed up. If one or the other is screwed up, it will never seal right and always leak.
Also, if the seat is messed up in the control valve, you may need to get a piece of copper you can put in between then or replace the seat in order to get it to seal properly.
Also, if the seat is messed up in the control valve, you may need to get a piece of copper you can put in between then or replace the seat in order to get it to seal properly.
