basically jumper is either connecting a jumper wire ( a wire with alligator clips on either side) to each side of a terminal, or for the starter, when you look at it, the two bolts sticking out on the starter relay (starter solenoid). One of them connects to the battery and the other the starter. You can also "jumper it" by using an insulated screwdriver and when holding the plastic/rubber/etc handle, place the metal end of the screwdriver so it hits both of the bolts sticking out or the starter relay.
By jumping the starter relay it sends the current directly to the starter so it will crank from outside the car.
To test for fuel I guess I would see if when you push in the shrader valve (same as which comes on the tire), which is located behind the alternator, located on the fuel lines which go to the fuel rail. Make sure you have a rag handy when you push it in with a screwdriver, as fuel may shoot out. But ultimately the best way would be to get a fuel pressure gauge and hook it to the shrader valve in order to measure the pressure once you turn the key to the key on/ignition off position.
Or just checking the spark plugs to see if they are covered in gas I guess too. Any thing else escapes me for the moment, as sometimes the most obvious things don't come to mind.