This is not about my mustang but....

This sounds very bad. Are you sure they used the correct tranny fliud? I think Ford changed their tranny fluid requirement on the newer 4R70W's. I think it uses a synthetic now. Could be wrong though.

But if they put the wrong stuff in it.........
 
If it hasn't lost any, I don't see how the seals would be bad, because then wouldn't it leak? Ya'll should have checked it to make sure none was lost....

I'd try putting in a quality synthetic tis go round (Amsoil, Royal Purple, etc...).

-Will