If you have the old style Lakewoods, with the loop around the axle, they install like this..
The loop mounts around the axle. The bar goes over the outside of the axle bracket, and the bolt goes through the bar, the axle and the lower control arm. This can be a mother to put together, but it is doable.
Then there is a box that goes into the torque box opening at the front of the bar. There is a rubber snubber that goes on a bolt between the front of the bar and the torque box bracket. Then the strut goes between the front of the bar and the axle loop.
When set up, with the car on the wheels the strut should not have any stress, and there should be a bit of play between the rubber bushing at the front of the bar and the torque box.
There is a version of this that has a loop vice the bolt and bushing at the front also.
I have these and they work great.
However, be careful on a street driven car. If set up tight enought be be effective, they will limit the rear suspension travel, and bind. If they bind enough, the mounting brackets at the rear will crack. I especially try not to go diagonally across driveway entrances, for instance.