Since I got the car 3rd gear would slightly grind but now all of a sudden when getting into 4th gear it grinds and when I try to get out of 4th gear it's stuck and I have to fight it to get out of gear. I've replaced my tail shaft seal and was told it takes mercon 5 auto trans fluid. Is that right? I remember when I had my 95 5.p with the t5 I used gear oil and never had issues with that trans.