brown spit8 said:so what do i do about it
I don't know brown. That is why I am trying to get Either Jay Tucker or Doug from Bama to come over and provide some insight.
Did you try removing the bus fuses and relay as terril made mention earlier? I am not a technician. I fall more on the engineering side. And as most of us know, that is pretty useless most the time.
If you have the stock air box back on, try pulling bus fuse 40 and associated relay like terril mentioned, reupload the stock tune. Reintall the fuses and turn her over. See what happens. Black smoke blow from the exhaust will indicate that it is still running rich and that you either have no MIL eliminator installed, they are not installed properly on the rear side of the O2 circuit or that the heated 02s are not coming to temperature quick enough.
Can you get the DC codes from the OBD with the Xcal to give us a better idea of where the problem is?
I wish I was more help brown. If all else fails, button her up, get her to a qualified ASE certified mechanic you trust, tow her if you have to. DO NOT TAKE HER TO THE DEALERSHIP. Ask the shop to give you a hand and explain what you have done and what the issue is. You will end out paying for the code pull and diagnostic. Perhaps if you have a shop that you have a good relationship with, they will be willing to slide you a favor for some referrals. My shop does this all the time for me.

Thanks Jay
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