umm you can go 1 of 2 ways, 1. 75w140 full synthetic gear oil does not require modifier, and can be bought at any parts store 2. 80w90 with additve, and NO your not limited to where can buy modifier, the parts store does carry a different brand the name of it is trans-x. it comes in a like an oversized toothpaste tube, and i think its better than what ford sells.