I figured so much.
On another note marcus, i found a guy in SoCal, that is supposidly a master with aluminum wheels, he's going to take my damaged deep dish 5 spoke (black ARe's) and put the spokes from it inside my other rear wheel that has the wrong offset.
From talking to a few people, the first morons to repair it for me, must of heated it up, thus making it forever soft.
BTW, i measure the rears today, and from the inside of the lip to inside of lip, they measure 8.5 wide, 9in if i measure from outside to outside.
Is that how why they are supposed to be?