Most of the early horror stories about 347/331 strokers have long since been rectified, but the rumors still persist that they are ticking time bombs, for some reason....
A properly-built 331 or 347 will last as long as a 351 or 351-based stroker, IMO. Whether you get a 351-based or a 302-based stroker, the point is that with todays quality and prices, it makes no sense to rebuild a stock-stroke motor when a stroker is so easily done.
The 331/47 will be lighter, if thats important to you, plus you get to keep your front dress and bracketry, headers/exhaust, etc (if you want to keep them). If you want lots of growing room later (392, 427, etc), get the 351 as the 302 is maxed out at 347 already.