I've met Phill, he seems a decent enough guy.
Letting a dash pad go for $41? Who do you have to blame for that?
The wife and I do 'real' auctions. Wifes a reseller, I'm an end user.
End users tend to bid higher as if they really need something they'll have to pay the reseller double later. It's in our best interest to run the bid.
In a real auction when I've seen someone I think will be competition I've been known to run the bid. Just to take money out of my competitions pocket so they won't have the money when we get to something I really want.
Other times I've run the bid just to keep someone from getting something for free. I told them to. Sometimes after the bid, sometimes during.
I've also bid way more than I wanted just to keep something from someone elses possession. I've done this for numerous reasons. Last time was a Rockwell tablesaw/ joiner combo. Earlier I heard the competition say 'a little navel gelly would clean that rust right up'. I couldn't let them get it.
This dash pad?? Went for nothing. If you knew about this before auctions end you let it go for 'free'. No one to blame but yourself.