??? if thats the case, you'd be wasting money on aftermarket heads, IMO. Most aftermarket heads don't starting pulling away until 4000 rpm or so, which I consider midrange. Use the stock ones, or maybe some windsor jr's since you don't plan to rev.
Also, if you limit your powerband like that, hopefully you'll be running an appropriately mild cam. Therfore, the flycutting you were worried about won't be an issue with any head I wouldn't think.
Remember, the only way to make good power with a small block is for it to rev. You can't really build a 302 into a 3500 rpm stump puller like you can a big block. I understand the desire for streetability, but a 302 (or similar size) can pull to 6500 and make great power, will still having good streetability. A low rpm 302 is a boring 302. And don't dare use a performer intake with any aftermarket head. It can barely keep up with the stock heads.
You gonna use a 2 bbl and iron exhaust manifolds too? LOL....j/k