I've had 4.10's and 3.73's, and IMO the 373's are MUCH more streetable than the 410's. Everyone's opinion is different though, so try to drive a car that has each to see what you like. With my 4.10's, it felt like the car never got to really use its power in first and second, the rpm's flew by, but the car didnt feel like it was pulling hard enough to compensate for the shorter time that I was in the gear. So like I said, try to drive a car with each and make your own decision.
Andy
Andy