Idealy you wast to be about 500rpm below your peak torque in your power band.
I make about 475lb/ft of torque at 4300rpm and the converter in my C4 stalls at about 3900rpm on the trans brake. Where you stall will also depend on the power you are making. For example, a converter behind a 500hp engine stalls at 4000rpm. The same converter behind a 600hp engine will stall higher.
You can also "loosen" or "tighten" the converter to the point were you will be going through the traps at your max rpm or shift point in third gear.
I just bought a 9 inch, steel stator converter with a 3/8 inch thick billit cover. A very nice but expensive piece at $1350. I had a 10 inch aluminum stator converter but I busted the stator on the launch a few weeks back. I was sick and tired of pulling the tranny for the few problems I had with it so I went a bit overkill with the converter so I wouldn't have to worry about it ever again.
Give Ian at Pro-West Converters a call. They are in Port- Coquitlam BC. He can get you set up with what you need.
His toll free number is 1-800-667-8884.
I can also e-mail you one of their applications if you want. So you can see what info they need in order to get the proper stall.