Yikes.
Your pistons are strong enough, however if you let it detonate, you will break rings, or ring lands on the piston unless you really do it right and destroy a piston.
The max boost allowed really depends on your tune. What are the AFs and how much timing. There is no set forumla for figuring this out, and with an NA engine, you may only get one chance before hurting something with a bad tune.
I ran a turbo computer with the associated injectors and VAM. I started at 9psi, and it worked out great. The min boost is set by your wastegate and a stock TF wastegate is for about 9psi. You just hook up the wastegate to a boost reference and it will boost to there. If you were too add a boost controller, this would allow higher boost levels.
I later ran about 15psi sucessfully. Then, a vacume hose popped off the FPR, causing it to go lean up an onramp. I broke the rings in one cylinder.