If you had an aftermarket set next to a stock set, it'd be very apparent. The best I can do for an example is a newspaper.
Lay the paper out with only the front page showing. Fold it in half left to right. Now take the left to the right again to form a U, but don't crease it. Pick it up and swing it around. It should be folding and flexing under its own weight.
Now undo your folds take the same paper showing the front page and roll it left to right into about a 1-1/4" diameter tube. Now pick that up and swing it around. Should be much more rigid.
This is similar to how the stock stamped control arms handle the movement of the car VS how tubular aftermarket control arms handle it.
Hopefully somebody will chime in with a better example.