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[Engel]

I took a girlfiend on a trip for 3 months one time, and found out that she had cheated on me, so I just left in the middle of the night. We were in PA, and I drove all the way back to FL and left her with the room bill, and no ride. It was by far the best feeling thing to do to her. I then changed my locks, phone numbers, and got a new car. hehe she was pissed (I guess, I never talked to her again)

hahhah,

 

[Kevin R.]

Update please.

 

[Black95GTS]

I would just non-chalantly tell her to leave. Act like it doesn't bother you at all. Just be cold and calm and calculated like "I hope it was worth it" and kick her out. She'll feel so guilty about, where as if you got pissed at her she'll get pissed back and leave with the feeling of "well he's a dick anyway he deserved it."

You want her to be as miserable as possible. Been there.

adam

 

[Kevin R.]

I have been there to and wish I would have just reacted the way people in this thread are telling you to, I would have felt a lot better about myself.

Now, we were'nt living together or anything, not that old yet. But non-the-less it sucks.

Make sure your positive she's cheating on you though or you will look like a jackass.

 

[xr8d302]

Hit her with a curling iron.

 

[MysteryMachine]

i agree whit these guys my ex was liek don't hurt my stuff so i throw it all outside said its outside come get your **** outta my yard when she got there i was liek hey tell him he can have you and walked away it was great the look on her was enough. Dude it hurts but now that i have my new gf i'm so much happier then i ever was with her you'll find someone better

 

[_MATiC]

ok i bet you guys want an update..so that night, i threw her stuff in the tub, watered it down with some nice hot water..i later went out with a buddy to a strip joint and to some clubs, met a few girls, good night really..so my gf comes over the next day, tearing because i didn't answr any of her calls the night before saying that she was so sorry and that she would change. i told her to prove it, and in order to do that it meant moving out and figuring out what she wanted on her own. fellas, the girl has problems, and she admitted that. she doesn't know who she is or what she wants so we both decided she needed professional help. so she'll be seeing a psychiatrist and living with her aunt while i will be livin w. a room matee, but i must say i am satisfied with that. i understand people make mistakes, and this was a big mistake that i will always hold against her because it's like they say. its easier to forgive an enemy than to forgive your best friend. maybe distance will tell if she really will change. i can at least be the better person and say i tried. and if not, im young, single, and good lookin! ..plus those girls we met on fri fell in love w. me and my buddy and are dying to go back out haha

 

[MysteryMachine]

lol when i found out my 1st gf was with another guy i was so pissed i was outside his house yelling at her and i kept noticing my arms lifting up to strangle her and kept puttign them back down. dude was like 26 and i called him out and he was like umm no thats ok i was like i ain't gonna hurt you get your ass outside he was scared of me and i was 18 at the time. Take it from me man its happened to me twice she aint worth it you'll find better I have

 

[BlueOvalStangGT]

You mean soldering iron?

 

[_MATiC]

lol when i found out my 1st gf was with another guy i was so pissed i was outside his house yelling at her and i kept noticing my arms lifting up to strangle her and kept puttign them back down. dude was like 26 and i called him out and he was like umm no thats ok i was like i ain't gonna hurt you get your ass outside he was scared of me and i was 18 at the time. Take it from me man its happened to me twice she aint worth it you'll find better I have

yeah, you're right man..like i said, i can at least say that i tried ya know? but you BET im gonna be going out a LOT more..there are so many girls, its just toooo hard to choose! no reason to tie myself down, but the ball's in her court..i figure i've done all i can and if she isn't gonna change, good luck to the next guy she's with

 

[silverstangman]

leave a nice steamer on her stuff

hell yeah nothing says i hate you like taking a dump on her stuff LOL!!!!

 

[8950HO]

leave a nice steamer on her stuff

That is an excellent idea .

 

[fiveo'cobra]

lol when i found out my 1st gf was with another guy i was so pissed i was outside his house yelling at her and i kept noticing my arms lifting up to strangle her and kept puttign them back down. dude was like 26 and i called him out and he was like umm no thats ok i was like i ain't gonna hurt you get your ass outside he was scared of me and i was 18 at the time. Take it from me man its happened to me twice she aint worth it you'll find better I have

I know how that is. My ex after two years of being in love decides she doesn't know what she wants anymore and starts going out with her 26 year old pervert manager from work (she was 17 then). She called me a couple times after that to see how im doing and i finally picked up and said "are you out of your f&cking mind? How do you think i'm doing?" She said i should be happy for her and i told her to leave me the hell alone. She gets this dude to call me and tell me to leave HER alone when she was calling ME. I've met him. He's tall and scrawny. I'm 20, weigh 190 and bench 280. I gave him my address and told him to come over my house right now and told him "if you think you have any power to butt in between me and her and tell me what to do, come over here right now and i'll break your f&cking jaw." Never heard from him again. Take it from someone who hit rock bottom and kept going down even further; when a girl throws a red flag like that, you do not want to go messing with it ever again. Just hearing her name makes me angry. My mother was so worried about me i was on anti-depressants, i didn't eat, didn't sleep, never came out of my room; just cried all day for months among months. Its been 8 months since this happened and i'm still absolutley torn up about it so that's one road you do not want to take. My mother even went to a psychic and asked what was going to happen with me. Even though i don't beleive in that stuff, she knew where i was, where i worked, how old i was etc and said one day that girl will come looking for me again. I don't know how true that is or not, but right now i'm just praying to god that i'll be strong enough to say no when that day comes. Sorry for the story but this topic has been my life for almost the past year.

 

[MysteryMachine]

yeah I wanted on pills after that talked to my doc he said think about it if you really want to we'll put you on something. I thought about it ad was liek i don't need that **** after the second one did it i was really down. I was put on pills anti depressants and things to make me sleep are a couple different pills they put me on lexapro (bad ****) it made me worse and I made a couple suicide comments to a priend over the net and she called the cops on me they picked me up and i got put in the ward for a day not fun at all. Found out from a friend that was on that same pill it made her worse too. I told the doc I want off this **** it made me worse and haven't been on anything since.

like i told Matic it gets better give it some time. I never expected to find my gf and when i did i never in my wildest dreams thought i woudl have the slightest chance in hell to be with her and i am and we look forward to the day we can be married and we've only been going out a couple months.

From someone who knows whats its like if either of ya's ever wanna talk hit me up i'd be glad to help anyway i can. I don't want to see anybody end up in the word or in a coffin over some dumb bitch. And i knw its hard to talk to peopel that you know cause they will be all wierd or say your fine get over it

 

[Turbo92PGT]

About 3 weeks ago my gf of 9 months (friends for 2 years - always wanted to date) dumps me. She said that she needs some time and wanted to be able to do whatever she wanted and wanted to be able to have friends and not have to worry about a boyfriend. So I'm crushed. I always let her do whatever she wanted really as long as it wasn't cheating on me etc. So I finished cleaning up her car (because I painted it) and drove it to her house. We talked for a few and her feelings didnt change, so I walked home. About 2 miles I was crying alot and was so depressed. When i got home i took the stang out and went driving around. I drove past her work to see if she was there and she wasn't, i drove by later and saw she was. but with another guy. I got so mad! Them drag radials hate me lol I called her up after I lit em up and started bitching at her and **** and went to the atm because i owed her 500 bucks because i just did the quarter panel and not the door. I go get out money and walk over to her car with this ****in ***got in there and i hand it to her and shake my head and walk off. This was followed by a huge smoke cloud. lol We talk sometimes now but every time we end up pissing each other off and getting into pissin matches lol. She walked away from me tonight, i always go follow after her, i think she does it because she likes the attention. But I didnt, i drove off.

We always talked that we were going to NO MATTER WHAT if we werent going out, going to goto prom and homecoming together. She's going with this ***got but wants to goto prom with me. And wants to get back together after her senior year. Like that ****in matters at all. WTF. I've talked and talked and talked about getting back together and i told her that "You do know that pretty soon im going to give up and completely leave you alone and not tlak to you anymore... you know that right" and she goes "i hope not, i do wanna be with you but not right now" and ****
I said you cant expect me to pretend that this doesn't bother me at all and to just let you do anything you want to do and then I'll just stand here and not care and wait for you to come back to me. I said "**** THAT" She didnt say much. But its so hard to not talk to her ya know. I hate it! Its too much

Good luck man, I know the strangling/killing feeling though. I've seen myself punch her in the face a few times lol. But i hold back. Definetly recommend the pretend you dont care method. Nothing gets them more mad. Because they think you never cared in the first place. They're complicated mofo's. Good luck dude

 

[Blackened302]

no worries, man. i know some of you guys feel like $hit right now, but really, the only thing you need is time. one day you're gonna wake up and realize that it's all bull$hit and you're gonna feel good. or you may meet a girl before you come to that self-realization, and through her you'll realize that it's bull. mark my words, gentlemen, after sunset there's sunrise.

 

[GRGT1994]

Hey Matic, good to hear how well your moving on.

Keep moving on. Any girl who disrespects you like that has killed her chance, and you gotta respect yourself enough to not let her back into your life. That doesn't mean you need to be a total dick, but keep her at a good distance.

And whatever you do, don't give her money for any reason, under any circumstances!!!

Good luck man.

 

[MysteryMachine]

Damn Turbo thats ****ed up i couldn't handle that i have a rule once you leave your out of the picture you had your chance. I woudl have told her you want to be with me then you woudl now not out ****ing around with other guys sounds to me like she just wants to whore around and not feel bad about it but when shes done being a she wants to come back to you. Don't get pissed at me for that thats just how it sounds to me. I would move on and forget her like I have always said she did it once she could always do it again.

Likeram said its bull**** and someday you'll all realize it

 

[95WhiteVenom]

Dang, I was hoping the ending of the story was you leaving a "Big Cleveland Steamer On Her Clothes" that would have been so funny!!!

 

[MysteryMachine]

you guys are sick lol