The only reason that the lower intake should try to 'lift' the head is if the heads or deck have been cut, the manifold hasn't, and the manifold is hitting the top of the block before it contacts the heads. In that case, tightening the manifold against the BLOCK might try to pull heads up to the manifold. Buy my experience with intakes is that those castings are so weak, you're gonna break an intake long before you're gonna do any significant lifting of the head. And all that's based on a geometry mistake anyway. If the manfold/head/block spacings are correct, the manifold port surface simply gets squeezed against the head port surface without contacting the block. No 'lifting' can take place in that configuration.