I will say my header bolts are somewhat low profile. I might go pull one out and measure it, but I know the lone ARP header bolt that PAW gave me is a bit longer and I had to use washers for it.
Now that you describe them, I may in fact have the composite gaskets. So I guess I need to pick up some aluminum gaskets and some slightly nicer bolts. Are the Stage 8s in a class of their own or are there other ones that will help? I'm also slightly worried about those 'locks'... will I be able to get at all of them with my header pipes in the way? There is very little clearance on a couple of them.