When i had to take my tabacco class, they said the best way to quite is one step at a time. there are a few ways, 1 keep your mind off of it, like chew gum, and around the times that you normally take a smoke, do something else, go somewhere else. cut back by just a couple a week, or you can just go cold turkey (hardest way) after about a couple weeks, you should be able to stand it. But at first it will be hard because you will "have" to smoke, your body is use to it. but like i said earlier just try to do something to keep your mind off of it. or when you need to smoke pick up a pincle and chew on it, or hold it like a cigarette (if you do this you might get into the habit of it, but it will fool your mind) but thats the best ways that i remeber about it.. hope that helps
ohh btw the patches kinda work, but its mainly just your mind thinking that they are working, that helps you. the main idea is to fool your mind to think that everything is ok.