I'm not sure how much you've looked into those parts mentioned earlier, but I thought maybe you like some feedback. Here is a small list of suspension mods that have had some dramatic effects on reducing my wheel hop and ride.
-rear differential brace for subframe
-polyurethane bushings for rear subframe and differntial carrier
-polyurethane sway bar bushings
-eibach sportline lowering springs
-bilstein shocks/struts
I'm also sitting on 285/35/18s so that helps a little. I'm still experiencing a small amount of wheel hop, but really nowhere near as bad as other stock 99-01's I've driven. Hope this helps.