Married guys how did you know she was "the one"

blksn955.o · Aug 2, 2005

As far as age goes, I think both people should be able to legaly drink alch. at their wedding reception. This is the min. age as far as I care.

CManT1914 · Aug 2, 2005

MysteryMachine said:
i'm 22 shes 16 she'll be 17 in September.

LOL my dad drove my car before i bought it other then that nobody other then when its been in the shop has driven it and i hate the fact that i know people drive it when its in the shop

lol, I forgot about the inspection guy. +1

blksn955.o said:
As far as age goes, I think both people should be able to legaly drink alch. at their wedding reception. This is the min. age as far as I care.

That would suck not being able to drink at your wedding

wytstang · Aug 2, 2005

JR hit the nail on the head when all those apply and you both really know each other then your good to go. Or if she eats crackers in bed and you don't kick her off that's a good sign .

Joes95GT · Aug 2, 2005

VibrantRedGT said:
My wife bought me parts for the car. I knew she was the one.

Count on Joe for a comment like that!

Me and my girl have been going for almost 5 years, although I don't know when our "anniversary" is (she doesn't know that though...LOL). I think it's close to Halloween.

Anyhow, as JR said, it's all about comfort. From the first days of talking to her, I felt like I could express myself freely...with other girls, I felt like I had to be who they wanted me to be.

I've always had the personality of a jokester, so I just can't help that I'm not an affectionate person in public. That's just not me, and I know a lot of girls couldn't stand that. When me and my girlfriend are alone together, she gets plenty of attention and affection, so ultimately she knows that even if I don't show it around my boys, she's still loved the same. It's not like I'm pushing her out, and she understands.

Then there's the trust issue....

I have other friends that are girls. I graduated with about 105 people in my high school class...of that, 70-something were girls. There were only about 30 guys, and, because I went to an "arts school", there were a lot of gay and weird dudes. Because of that, I had more friends that were girls (as opposed to guys).

I know most girls get extremely jealous when their boyfriend hangs out with other girls. Mine doesn't. She knows that at the end of the day (or night), I'll be back with her, and that she means more to me than my other "girlfriends".

It's all about comfort, honesty and trust.

Joe

wytstang · Aug 2, 2005

16 is pretty young and their minds can change at anytime. Give it time if shes the one all will work out. But like they say "if there's grass in the in field play ball"

wytstang · Aug 2, 2005

Nothing to see here move along....

Black95GTS · Aug 2, 2005

I knew mine was special when I went to Mexico for spring break this year and the following things happened:

1. I left her my car keys and when I got back it had a full gas tank.

2. She waited through 3 hours of flight delays and picked me up at 3:30 in the morning.

3. When she picked me up she was wearing a school girl outfit with pig tails. This actually happened, I swear to god. On my grandfather's grave.

Even though I went on spring break, in mexico, my senior year in college she never once asked me if anything went on. (Nothing did, I love her too much, although let me tell you, if you have a daughter dont let her go to mexico on spring break, things happen down in mexico!)

I asked her why she didnt ask, and she said that she didnt have to because she trusts me and knew I would never do anything to hurt her. Which is true. But after hearing that, I'm pretty sure I'm marrying this one.

Oh and she works for Ford.

- adam

blksn955.o · Aug 2, 2005

Black95GTS said:
Oh and she works for Ford.

- adam

rock on, my father-in-law ownes a snap-on franchise, she used to help him load and inventory tools when she was younger. When everyone is hanging out working on someones car, we joke she is better having around since she knows what tools to get over the one non-mech. inclined friend who outside of electric tools (he is an electrition) doesnt know jack.

Grn92LX · Aug 2, 2005

Joes95GT said:
I've always had the personality of a jokester, so I just can't help that I'm not an affectionate person in public. That's just not me, and I know a lot of girls couldn't stand that. When me and my girlfriend are alone together, she gets plenty of attention and affection, so ultimately she knows that even if I don't show it around my boys, she's still loved the same. It's not like I'm pushing her out, and she understands.

Joe

Well said. I too, am an immature fuuck. I also can't stand public affection. I HATE with a passion holding hands in public!

I'm not married, but we've talked about it. Been together for almost 2.5 years. Basically, plain and simple, i'm an asswhole and if she can tollerate me then she's for sure the one. We had been dating a little over a month and she bought me a new pair of nitto drag radials A few months ago she bought me new front tires too. She also tollerates my music which isn't her taste at all. I listen to hardcore/metal She knows i'll be a cool dad when the time comes

Scott_95GT · Aug 2, 2005

MysteryMachine said:
i'm 22 shes 16 she'll be 17 in September.

LOL my dad drove my car before i bought it other then that nobody other then when its been in the shop has driven it and i hate the fact that i know people drive it when its in the shop

Holy **** she's 16!

"I knew she was the one when she invited me to JR. Prom." lol

mackey · Aug 2, 2005

Scott_95GT said:
Holy **** she's 16!

"I knew she was the one when she invited me to JR. Prom." lol

HAHAA

Joes95GT · Aug 2, 2005

Grn92LX said:
Well said. I too, am an immature fuuck. I also can't stand public affection. I HATE with a passion holding hands in public!

I'm not married, but we've talked about it.

Oh no...the 'M' word. I won't get married until I'm out of school with a decent job and my/our own place to live.

And I just hate holding hands in public because my palms sweat too much. At least it doesn't look so bad when we're in privacy.

Joe

GTJake · Aug 2, 2005

Yeah, 16 is really young, but who are we to say. My brother (18) is dating a 16 year old girl for six months now. All girls think about marriage from the time they are like 15, but at 16 I don't think they have the maturatity to seriously consider a decision of that magnitude.

I've been dating my girlfriend for 10 months now. The summers really suck when we are apart. (She lives in Michigan and me in Minnesota). But when we're back at school (Michigan) things are great. I guess the tip off is just that when you're with her nothing else matters. I feel like when I'm with my girl that everything I'm worrying about is gone. And when a day apart from her seems like a week.

I definitley agree with Joe. Hanging out with other girls can bother them. But you just need to explain yourself and make sure she feels comfortable with it.

Jake

speedytang · Aug 3, 2005

21 years in Nov. I just knew this was the one when she Says " Go ahead and spend money on your cars because I will always know your home in the garage and not in another womans arms" I was sold and $1million dollars later still trying to catch the faster guy next door...LOL

MysteryMachine · Aug 3, 2005

GTJake said:
I feel like when I'm with my girl that everything I'm worrying about is gone. And when a day apart from her seems like a week.

thats how I feel about my gf. And shes not like other 16 year old girls lol shes more mature.

Holy **** she's 16!

"I knew she was the one when she invited me to JR. Prom." lol

Dude thats ****ed up lol

Black95GTS · Aug 3, 2005

MysteryMachine said:
thats how I feel about my gf. And shes not like other 16 year old girls lol shes more mature.
Holy **** she's 16!
"I knew she was the one when she invited me to JR. Prom." lol
Dude thats ****ed up lol

Hey you're the one that has to match your tux vest to whatever pastel color is curently in fashion this prom season.

Funny story: I'm lookin for a truck for a daily driver, either an F-150 (first choice), Silverado 1500, or Sierra. She's like you can't get the regular cab. I'm like why not, I don't want the back seat, just the bench. She's like Adam, trust me, you need the back seat, I won't let you get the regular cab.

So now I'm getting fired up.

She goes... "you need the back because where are we gonna put the baby seat?" :damnit:

MysteryMachine · Aug 3, 2005

ok enough with the ****ing prom cracks

Congrats on the baby if she is prego

Black95GTS · Aug 3, 2005

MysteryMachine said:
ok enough with the ****ing prom cracks

Congrats on the baby if she is prego

No way she's definately not pregnant, she just thinks its hysterical to give me heart attacks and say things like that.

Thanks anyway though!

MysteryMachine · Aug 3, 2005

OH lol i hate when they do that. BUT always remember a car seat can fit in the back of a stang that not a family car stuff is BS

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