my family.......

MI95Cobra said:

blksn955.0, i hope you the best of luck starting your family when you do... i keep this in mind everyday, and i hope this will help you...i think that i want them and me to do better then what they had have....i want them to have a chance at life.....and i hope they are able to get past the fact that their parents weren't the best parents, and that its not the kids fault( we tell the kids that its not their fault) you can tell them but sometimes they think that....

Click to expand...

Thanks, A few of my buddies have children and seeing what they go threw is both the neetest thing and the hardest thing one can do. My grandparents were a big impact on me when I was younger while my mom was working and simply not able to be around (she did try just me and my stepfather kinda put her in a tight spot to choose) and thanks to people like them and you it makes a WHOLE lot of diff.

Someone once told me a few things that are kinda wise...you can only show them the diff. in right and wrong you cannot make them travel the correct path. Sometimes you have to just stand up and say its not an excuse (broken homes/poor parenting) to be bad but a reason to work hard and do good.