I'm not closed to the idea of a bad ECU, but the one I have has less than 1000 miles on it. I suppose things could go south pretty quickly. Though.I'm starting to wonder if you don't just have a bad computer. I hate wiring/electronic issues. Good luck.
I know that if the wrong O2 harness (e.g., an auto harness in a manual), is used with the ECM that it will fry immediately. I wonder if something happened when the wrong O2 sensor was put into my car (i.e., a 4 cyl O2)?