Need opinions on girl issue

[badstang123]

I have this girl that I used to date a while back. It lasted about a year and we had great times together. The only problem thoughout was that she could not express any of her thoughts or emotions in words. This often times left me wondering what the **** was going on. I always felt as if I couldn't trust her because I didn't know what was going on in her head. Not that she did anything wrong, I just didn't know. Eventually I couldn't take it anymore, so I ended it. Now were cool and we talk here and there. We also hook up here and there. Nothing near serious but on occasion it happens. It probably would more but she is real flakey. So much so it almost has gotten to the point that it really isn't worth the time to talk to her. At times she'll text me, I'll respond, and then she just won't write anything back. It's real stupid actually. Well, as some of you know I recently had surgery. Just after I had the surgery and was recovering she wrote me saying she hoped I was good and if I needed anything to let here know. I said I was doing okay but she should come by and watch a movie with me (That's all I did for a week straight) Well she never responded. I don't know why she even bothered. Well I talked to a friend of mine last night and apparently she tried to go out to dinner with him. He said no, so it ended there.

I need some reassurance in my drunkeness. I should never talk to here again right? The broad even texted me today asking how I was doing. I can't believe how people can act like they give a **** when they're really trying to screw you. Needless to say I never wrote back. Tell me what you guys think.
- Justin

 

[Blackened302]

piitb then never talk to her again, seriously

 

[drakesdad]

Justin....if you don't have any ties to this young lady...ie kids, living together.etc....then cut all ties.......life is way too short for games....and as far as figuring out a woman....good luck....all we can do is be honorable and trustworthy.....if that is not enough....then move on.....At least your in Cali.......shouldn't be a shortage on available women.......
Good luck with the post surgery
Will

 

[badstang123]

Thanks for the input guys. I figured it was the right decision. I am quick to cut people that screw me out of my life. Sometimes to quick. That's why I wanted a second opinion.

 

[drakesdad]

Thanks for the input guys. I figured it was the right decision. I am quick to cut people that screw me out of my life. Sometimes to quick. That's why I wanted a second opinion.

Justin.........in this respect you are not alone.........I'm like that with friends....or so called friends.....once you "dog" me or the family.....your gone.........enjoy life brother......you never know when your card is going to be pulled and don't waste a minute on the negative........You should be on the beach.....

 

[95Vert]

She's trying to play you. She's a lil . Play her game. Your "problem" is that you take her seriously when you shouldn't. Just play along. Maybe you can get some ass out of it and have a booty call for every now and then. I have some friends who take everything to heart. DONT! It's a female. You're not going to marry her so screw it.

 

[MysticKeith50]

I agree with above...the funny thing is, I will gaurentee that if you don't talk to her, within time, she will come back. It always happens. I found my wife when I stopped trying(not that you are trying to get married ). I don't know how old you are, but I know from the ages of 17-22, was a real pain in the a$$ with these hookers. Good thing I had a 5.0 to beat up on everyday!!!!

 

[MysteryMachine]

Justin....if you don't have any ties to this young lady...ie kids, living together.etc....then cut all ties.......life is way too short for games....and as far as figuring out a woman....good luck....all we can do is be honorable and trustworthy.....if that is not enough....then move on.....At least your in Cali.......shouldn't be a shortage on available women.......
Good luck with the post surgery
Will

I thought cali was where all the gays went just forget her unless your in love with her its not worth it move on and get a real gf

 

[eagleautosports]

No wonder we men die first....Women......agagahhghhhhh.........
You can do better. Bad thing is when you don't want them around anymore, they won't leave you alone. When you want them, they act like yo yo's.