Dude, go to the gym every day and get on a good program. Transform your body and it will also transform your mind. Improve your life in some way and move on, and don't look back. Be strong - if you're not, pretend you are - no one can tell the difference. The best way to get over heartache is hard work.
In my experience, whenever girls start pulling this mysterious behavior crap there's *always* another guy involved. When they start throwing out a bunch of excuses to break up you can bet they have something going on the back burner.
The bottom line is no girl is worth your dignity or worth making a fool out of yourself for.
Get yourself a plan together to go to college and get yourself on track for success after high school. Do that and the right girl will show up eventually. You never find it when you are looking - it always comes along when you are focused elsewhere.
Focus on making YOU better and I promise the right high quality girl will come along - you attract what you are.
It's just one of those things where you are too young to know what you don't know yet. I was married at 23, divorced at 29, and then married again at 31 - and the 2nd time around is bliss. These are all of the lessons I learned during that process. Knowing what I know now, I wouldn't have had a serious relationship until I was in my mid-20's. I've seen so many friends throw away promising athletic careers, drop out of school, and throw away their lives by moping over girls that never worked out.
Anyow that's my .02....good luck
In my experience, whenever girls start pulling this mysterious behavior crap there's *always* another guy involved. When they start throwing out a bunch of excuses to break up you can bet they have something going on the back burner.
The bottom line is no girl is worth your dignity or worth making a fool out of yourself for.
Get yourself a plan together to go to college and get yourself on track for success after high school. Do that and the right girl will show up eventually. You never find it when you are looking - it always comes along when you are focused elsewhere.
Focus on making YOU better and I promise the right high quality girl will come along - you attract what you are.
It's just one of those things where you are too young to know what you don't know yet. I was married at 23, divorced at 29, and then married again at 31 - and the 2nd time around is bliss. These are all of the lessons I learned during that process. Knowing what I know now, I wouldn't have had a serious relationship until I was in my mid-20's. I've seen so many friends throw away promising athletic careers, drop out of school, and throw away their lives by moping over girls that never worked out.
Anyow that's my .02....good luck