i will say that you need to do what is right for you. if this job is something you want to do, and you like the place of work, then go for it, get your SO to move with you. on the other hand, if you have any reservations about the job itself, or if the SO doesnt want to move, or cant move, and you dont want to leave her, then pass. by the way, if you go, you can always transfer most if not all of your credits to a local university.
"I don't think I should up and leave her" ??????
at the very least you and her should be having this conversation.........if you are serious about getting (and staying) married............
eventually you will have to determine if there is enough job opportunities where you live now to stay in the area, anyway, even after you graduate....or that conversation is going to happen then....
that being said:
i don't think that a 200 mile commute is feasible, that's a 6 hour day right there....living there during the week could work, but you and her whould have to figger out how this will play out if you plan on staying there.........
one good sign is that you have people recruiting you now........you must be doing something right
good luck
mud
at the very least you and her should be having this conversation.........if you are serious about getting (and staying) married............
eventually you will have to determine if there is enough job opportunities where you live now to stay in the area, anyway, even after you graduate....or that conversation is going to happen then....
that being said:
i don't think that a 200 mile commute is feasible, that's a 6 hour day right there....living there during the week could work, but you and her whould have to figger out how this will play out if you plan on staying there.........
one good sign is that you have people recruiting you now........you must be doing something right
good luck
mud