Eh, i've been watching this thread from post one (if you look back, there i am)...11 pages later here we are.
Andy, It's awesome you are reading through this thread and doing your best to take the advice posted here (...some of it is more funny than useful
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Here is an overview of your situation.
You someone come in contact with her, she does something you wish she would not. You get hurt, confused, angry.
Repeat x 11 pages.
You seem too exspect her to change back into the person you thought you knew. It just isnt going to happen.
Now we can sit and debate on wether you created an illusion of her being someone she is not, or wether she just changed period...but that is not point.
Here , now to get past her (the problem) ..you need to move forward.
To move forward you need to take the collective advice you have seen written throughout this thread.
1: Break contact
2: Break contact
3: Do things, anything, that doesnt involve her.
4: keep everything in prayer and ask for guidance!
Like freakintiger said, we speak from 3rd person here. If they had a shirt that said "relationships: been there done that" i would (like most of the people in this room) own it. Also ...as you see people post there advice , most of it is true. It is hard to move forward, but really, for your sake, be a man and do it. Ill happily post another 100 pages to save you some of the suckyness of heartache. Keep up the work, its tough, its never going to be easy, but then again nothing worth having is "easy".