Tokico or Bilstein Suspension Kit

Neither, If you want a real tuned kit I think the Bilstein /H&R combo is always safe. Both of those kits tune their springs to be more compliant than, for example, eibach pro kit, or H&R sport, Steeda Sport , etc. Or if you want adjustables Illuminas will work fine.
Their are always compromises in basic packages because they are trying to meet a price point.
The tokico Hp is not an impressive shock. Ive had them one three cars with similar negative charictaristics for each kit. (Noisy, and short performance life span.)
If i had to choose one I would choose the bilstein Kit. But make sure those are Bilstein sport shocks&struts(used to be called HD) and not some lower grade assembly just for theior shock/spring kits.
Ive driven and ridden in both and Bilstein seems to smooth out all those imperfections in the road that tokicos seem to amplify.