What would you do.....(not car releated)

whyask

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OK.... since majority of us on here are men... I need some input. I have a great grlfrnd now, And Ive recently gone through a divorce, BUT the ex-wife still wants divorce sex... should I give in and have one more go-round, or think with the other head and tell her no I have a grlfrnd now.. I know its sounds childish, but im 27 and Ive never really gone through a divorce before.. what to do ....input please guys ...girls too from your point of view !
 
Don't bother...opening that door again is just asking for trouble. If you're actually considering it, then you must not be as happy in your current relationship as you say you are. This might be a good time to rethink your current one if that's the case.
 
they are exactly right about her using it against u. if u bang her and then piss her off the next month, trust me she will run her mouth. has happened to me. and she will tell a story in such great detail that when u get confronted u wont know what to say even if u wanted to lie. haha.
 
they are exactly right about her using it against u. if u bang her and then piss her off the next month, trust me she will run her mouth. has happened to me. and she will tell a story in such great detail that when u get confronted u wont know what to say even if u wanted to lie. haha.

Amen to that!


Then you wouldn't have tang from anybody. :(


On a sort of more serious note, it would mess with your head also. I'm sure you had/have strong feelings about the ex but remember that you broke it off for a reason (whatever the case). Any time she hints at wanting to get back together, for sex or whatever, remember why you are divorced. If your current GF is not worth respecting (by not cheating on her) then you need to find another girl all together. My 2 penniez...
 
Yea dont be too hastey to get some agin from her. A freind of mines Ex tried that with him (actually she wanted a 3 some with her girl friend) and he fortunatly said no. Well he seen her about a week later with a huge cold sore on her lip LOL. her "friend" had herpies! And im talking about the stuff that goes BOTH places if you catch my drift. She was trying to get back at him and give that crap to him.

Just another thing to think about. And then think about the fact that you guys are getting divorce...there is a reason. So think about that reason and move on. its not worth the hassle or time invested for something that will just keep repeating itself.
 
well how goodlooking is your Ex? No no no jp, on a serious note i would not do it. She can easily find your new girlfriend and tell her. If that happens then your girl will more then likely leave you. Then your back in the circle with your ex. Trust me from experience if she is trying to get sex now, when she finds out that you have a girl friend, its gonna be harder because more then likely she will want it even more. This is only from my past experience and everyone is different but DONT DO IT! IMO
 
thanks guys... Ya friends and family arnt around....Im travling in the military right now and I needed quick advice. who better to turn to than a group a guys and grls with the same intrest ! Much easier !