thanks guys alot ....I just needed some reassurance...... being away from the grlfrnd , the minds wonders a bit, and since the ex had ask.... it took alot of will power (and good advice stangnet) to not give in.....once again this site hasnt failed me....Also much cheaper than therapy !
I agree with this 100%....never , ever have sex with your ex-wife....she is the ex for a reason, move on, and forget her.
Appreciate the GF you have now, and if you dont let her go, so she can pursue a relationship with a man that will treat her right.