She sees the whole car hobby as a giant waste of time and money for very little actual enjoyment in the end.The way I see this, it’s like marriage counseling. My wife and I went through it once at the 7 year mark. Everything covered in counseling had been said in private prior, but it didn’t get taken seriously until the uninvolved third party said it or agreed with it. Kate represents the counselor in this case, several of us meager forum friends as the spouse.
* That’s because to her, I’m the reference standard.
I have to tell her that I’m the opposite of whats “normal“ in this hobby. I go on to tell her that “ normal“ does one of two things:
They put Ford engines in Ford cars,
OR...
They pay somebody else $100,000.00 to put whatever engine they want in the car, and while they wait for that to happen, go with their wife’s to the Farmers market on Saturday.


