Yeah, agreed on the rev limit.
Out of the nitrous cars I've worked on (several), mine is the only one I could "really" feel a 75 shot on, and was also the only one with a purge. I put a Compucar kit in a '98 GT 'vert and it was questionable whether or not it was coming on. The 125 was without a doubt coming on, though.
What you need to do is set up an arming switch or a button-type activation. Start accelerating, then hit the switch. You'll feel it then, especially if it's purged.
I spray straight out of the hole, soon as my car launches and my foot hits the floor, it's spraying.
You say you can hear it???? Funny, the only thing I hear is my exhaust getting louder....
I agree in the smoothness of the systems. Both NX kits I have worked with were excellent setups, there are no jerks or big drama with the juice coming on, only a kick in the pants and the car goes faster! lol