Use Fuel line/PVC/EEC hose. Others will crack, harden, or collapse (eventually). Make sure the parts person gets you the right hose, most will grab normal vacuum hose.
The catch can really depends on if that's your issue (mods, supercharger/turbo....or excessive blowby). Also, where it's sucking the oil in. Typically, you run one on the pvc valve side.
pvc valve>hose>catchcan>hose>intake
If it's the other side you'd run one on that side.
oil fill tube>hose>catch can>throttle body
Don't connect pvc valve side to the valve cover side.
Not all catch cans are created equal. I would pass on being cheap and getting the air/water separators from Lowes or Homedepot. I personally like Bobs catch can. Again, this is irrelevant if this isn't your issue.
When I disconnected a line, oil would drip out when it had a problem sucking oil. This was with a China cobra intake.
What mods does this vehicle have? Miles?