Front suspension noise and wobble

Sounds like there's damage to one or both of the wheels, at the very least. All I can suggest is to get the front of car up in the air and take a look underneath. Rotate each tire by hand and listen for the clunk. Wiggle each tire side-to-side, pull the top and bottom of each wheel.

I'm going to guess they messed up your steering rack by pulling on the tie rods. No way to really know until you get the front end up in the air.

You're probably out of luck trying to get repair costs out of the towing company, they can always claim it was that way when they towed the car. You might have better luck with the apartment complex, especially if they had you illegally towed. But it's likely going to turn into a court case either way.

Good luck, keep us posted.