help fast out of time

it really sounds like to me that you have the firing order screwed up

A 302 non h.o will fire up on the H.o. firing order. it will be running on 4 cylinders. I had my 351w wired like a non H.O. and it ran. not well but it did. I think it is a timing issue more then anything. Perhaps remove the spout connector so the computer isn't controling the timing.
 
I think you have to pull Number 1 plug and rotate engine till you are at TDC of compression stroke just to make sure you are not a tooth out. I had this same issue with the 302 in my truck. I thought i was bang on. However it turns out after i got a frend over i was a couple teeth out on the dizzy. restabbed it and she fired right up.
 
A 302 non h.o will fire up on the H.o. firing order. it will be running on 4 cylinders. I had my 351w wired like a non H.O. and it ran. not well but it did. I think it is a timing issue more then anything. Perhaps remove the spout connector so the computer isn't controling the timing.

i know i did the same thing on my 331 lol (long story)