Hey, everyone needs to let things out from time to time and I get that. Life is not always full of rainbows and butterflies, but you make do with things the best you can. I don't give relationship advice, I'll just stick to mustangs for now using my failed marriage as the example on why I shouldn't be a relationship counselor. I will respectfully dissagree with one of your statements. "in todays world money is happiness" If there is one thing that I have learned in the past few years it is that your statement can't be farther from the truth. I'm a divorced single father to a beautiful 3 1/2 year old girl. Sure I could spend every last penny I make on my cars or my daughter but where does that leave me? Broke and with a lot of stuff all of which means nothing. I would rather just be broke and cherish every last second that I get to spend with my daughter. I am so much happier sitting in the park throwing bread crumbs into the pond with her and living in that one moment than anything else in the world. There isn't a car or a car part or anything that money could buy that can replace that one moment. Just to here her say "I love you daddy" makes me feel like the richest man in the world and money has nothing to do with it. ( I just needed to get that off my chest as well )