I'll start with second part of the title (the "happy stuff") first.
Later today, Matt, Jessie and I will be heading up to Phoenix to pick up Cowgirl Tink at Sky Harbor; and along with her will be coming SVTCobra306. So, we're going to be finding out if the Iowa Farm Boy that jumps out of perfectly operable airplanes can get along with a bunch of redneck Desert Rats! A.J. had planned on visiting Trish and all his other Ft Polk buddies for the rest of this week; but changed his plans when he found out Trish was heading back this way. BTW, his plans changed literally at the last possible second, when I called him as he was about to check in his bags at the Fayetteville airport. When he heard that Tink was heading this way, he exchanged tickets to get on her connecting flight from Houston to Phoenix.
The sad news is the reason for their coming; and I'm gonna try to soldier through this with a minimum of sniffles. My Mom passed away in the small hours of Tuesday morning, July 18, 2006. We had been expecting this for a year or so, and it became very imminent while I was away at Scout Camp last week. when my sister finally caught up with me upon my return this past Sunday, the news was that Mom would be at peace some time in the next week or two. But Mom was never the patient type. I never talked about it much online, but 65Stanger and I had been PM'ing each other quite a bit when the cancer came (to Mom) two years ago; and again as she entered the Alzheimer's Facility; and I thank Fritz for his patience and understanding. Who better than the BBFCM to help me through this stuff; with his own personal experiences and those of his step-mom? Thanks, ol' buddy.
I'm not gonna get into the whole "spiritual/sharing thoughts" routine; because I've done it already on - of all places- myspace Yes, I have a myspace account; got it to keep track of Tink and her sister (and all thier friends and acquantances); just doing the 21st century "Dad Thing". Never thought I'd be actually posting anything over there; but I was responding to a PM from a Ft Polk "Army brat" (who just went through Army Boot Camp himself) whose family Tink had befriended this past year; and I just started feeling creative (or was it maudlin?). Okay, so there was a bottle of whiskey involved
Anywhat, that's neither here nor there; I just wanted to say couple of things about the lady that raised me. I was her "late-in-life child"; born shortly before her 41st birthday (and Dad was 45); some of my friends in grade school thought I lived with my grandparents, 'cause the other kids' parents were the same age as my older brothers But mom (and Dad) were cool for "old folks". Mom even thought my oldest brother's 67 and 68 Mustangs and his '67 Cougar were "cute little cars", his '65 289 HiPo Fairlane 500 was "really pretty, but's kind of loud", and his '64 Econoline camper-conversion (the "Yellow Submarine") was "a nice way to travel with a bunch of people". She wasn't too sure about the next brother's '67 396ci Camaro Rally Sport - "Why can't that nice car go around corners without squealing the tires? But it's neat if you want to go somewhere in a hurry!" Mom was cool, that way.
The best way I can describe my Mom to those who never had the chance to meet her is to say that, when Cowgirl Tink was younger, my whole family called her "Little Mary". Tink looks almost exactly like my Mom -except the hair: Trish is a blonde, and Mom's hair was jet-black before it turned gray. And, they have/had the same personality; they'll be everybody's best friend 'til somebody pi$$es them off, then, well, it's best to get out of the way Anybody else notice how that flame looks likes it's giving somebody "The Finger"?
And now, my younger daughter Jessie - who (with the purchase of NoKitten's '73 Cougar) is now known as "NoNameKitten" on mercurycougar.net - is blossoming into a beautiful young lady, who has well developed Mom's sensibilities as well as her talents in poetry and prose. A lot alike, those three; I'm a lucky guy.
So, anyway; that's what is going on at the StangDreamin' household this week and next. Just so you all know. Now, I've got to go out and "Mush the Boys" (verbal shorthand for "Give the geriatric horses their supplement mixture"). Should have been done last night; but, like I said, there was this bottle of whiskey.......
Later today, Matt, Jessie and I will be heading up to Phoenix to pick up Cowgirl Tink at Sky Harbor; and along with her will be coming SVTCobra306. So, we're going to be finding out if the Iowa Farm Boy that jumps out of perfectly operable airplanes can get along with a bunch of redneck Desert Rats! A.J. had planned on visiting Trish and all his other Ft Polk buddies for the rest of this week; but changed his plans when he found out Trish was heading back this way. BTW, his plans changed literally at the last possible second, when I called him as he was about to check in his bags at the Fayetteville airport. When he heard that Tink was heading this way, he exchanged tickets to get on her connecting flight from Houston to Phoenix.
The sad news is the reason for their coming; and I'm gonna try to soldier through this with a minimum of sniffles. My Mom passed away in the small hours of Tuesday morning, July 18, 2006. We had been expecting this for a year or so, and it became very imminent while I was away at Scout Camp last week. when my sister finally caught up with me upon my return this past Sunday, the news was that Mom would be at peace some time in the next week or two. But Mom was never the patient type. I never talked about it much online, but 65Stanger and I had been PM'ing each other quite a bit when the cancer came (to Mom) two years ago; and again as she entered the Alzheimer's Facility; and I thank Fritz for his patience and understanding. Who better than the BBFCM to help me through this stuff; with his own personal experiences and those of his step-mom? Thanks, ol' buddy.
I'm not gonna get into the whole "spiritual/sharing thoughts" routine; because I've done it already on - of all places- myspace Yes, I have a myspace account; got it to keep track of Tink and her sister (and all thier friends and acquantances); just doing the 21st century "Dad Thing". Never thought I'd be actually posting anything over there; but I was responding to a PM from a Ft Polk "Army brat" (who just went through Army Boot Camp himself) whose family Tink had befriended this past year; and I just started feeling creative (or was it maudlin?). Okay, so there was a bottle of whiskey involved
Anywhat, that's neither here nor there; I just wanted to say couple of things about the lady that raised me. I was her "late-in-life child"; born shortly before her 41st birthday (and Dad was 45); some of my friends in grade school thought I lived with my grandparents, 'cause the other kids' parents were the same age as my older brothers But mom (and Dad) were cool for "old folks". Mom even thought my oldest brother's 67 and 68 Mustangs and his '67 Cougar were "cute little cars", his '65 289 HiPo Fairlane 500 was "really pretty, but's kind of loud", and his '64 Econoline camper-conversion (the "Yellow Submarine") was "a nice way to travel with a bunch of people". She wasn't too sure about the next brother's '67 396ci Camaro Rally Sport - "Why can't that nice car go around corners without squealing the tires? But it's neat if you want to go somewhere in a hurry!" Mom was cool, that way.
The best way I can describe my Mom to those who never had the chance to meet her is to say that, when Cowgirl Tink was younger, my whole family called her "Little Mary". Tink looks almost exactly like my Mom -except the hair: Trish is a blonde, and Mom's hair was jet-black before it turned gray. And, they have/had the same personality; they'll be everybody's best friend 'til somebody pi$$es them off, then, well, it's best to get out of the way Anybody else notice how that flame looks likes it's giving somebody "The Finger"?
And now, my younger daughter Jessie - who (with the purchase of NoKitten's '73 Cougar) is now known as "NoNameKitten" on mercurycougar.net - is blossoming into a beautiful young lady, who has well developed Mom's sensibilities as well as her talents in poetry and prose. A lot alike, those three; I'm a lucky guy.
So, anyway; that's what is going on at the StangDreamin' household this week and next. Just so you all know. Now, I've got to go out and "Mush the Boys" (verbal shorthand for "Give the geriatric horses their supplement mixture"). Should have been done last night; but, like I said, there was this bottle of whiskey.......