OH MY GOD!! The roller coaster of emotions in this thread!! I had to catch up on quite a few pages.
First of all, I'm so sorry about your brother, Dave. I'm all too familiar with what cancer does to loved ones. You and you family are in my prayers...especially with your wife's recovery. It was so good to hear ...eerr read....that she was treated within the "golden hour" of treating a stroke patient. That's awesome! She will probably make a full recovery!
Now for the ups....The 408 will be awesome, especially with the AFRs and EFI. Look into Stinger PiMPxs for engine management. It has all the features you need to do whatever your little heart can handle. I'll be ordering mine in a couple months. Oh, and it uses MS3 software.
Now for the other low of this thread.....No Kona Blue anymore?!?!?!

My heart hit the floor when I read this. It's such a beautiful color(Blue is my favorite color)!! I'm not a fan of green. I like to look at red but I don't want to own a red car. It screams "HEY LOOK AT ME!!!" I'm not that kinda guy. BUT, since this car is turning into a tribute to your brother, Doby's red is very fitting and I like that choice.
I'm glad you're getting back to it tho, Dave.