I understand what you're talking about completely. On most auto cars the converter is engaged until you hit the brake. The brake switch disengages the tcc.
When you hit the brake, even in second, the tc should be disengaged.
Mind you it still shouldn't be locked up in second, but the brake switch should over ride the tcc.
It also would cause a hard shift condition between 1st and 2nd and 2nd and 3rd...but you manually shift, right ?
I read everything you did with the trans but I don't remember if you wired it through the brake switch.... On newer cars the switch makes contact for the brake lights and opens the other when its pressed.
I don't know man....just trying to help you out with whatever little knowledge I have. I must admit....you're way more skilled than me....
I remember something you did ( or thought about doing ) that involved a switch on the linkage so the trans would sense it was in 4th and needed lock up.
I haven't had a drink yet....so....this info may be useless.