It can be difficult to piece together all the info from these threads because its bounced around so many different ways and stuff. I think it would help more if a step by step direction was applied to the process without skipping any steps. Its hard to screw up if you follow correct directions. Plus, I still think most of these pitfalls can be avoided if a correct direction is followed.
Like, theoretically if the motor is sitting square, the bell is centered, tranny torqued down right, the correct crossmember used and facing the right way, you use the correct mount facing the right way, all mounts and bushings are good, the tranny is still in the stock angle, and the driveshaft is balanced correctly then there isnt really a chance to have a vibration unless we are missing something.