Definitely would not drop a push rod 5.0 in there.
Whatever you read about 4.6's being hard to build must have been old school advice. There is a huge aftermarket of parts and tons of options to go fast.
I would first do all the routine maintenance that is due (and learn to do it yourself) and get your car in good shape. Examples: spark plugs, oil change, new coolant, flush brake lines, check all your rubber hoses and belts, new shocks/struts (I'm partial to bilsteins), and get tires that match your goals (wider rims usually and the stickiest street tire you can afford nitto 555's from Americanmuscle.com is a good street tire for your power level).
After you get everything in great order i'd stiffen up the chassis with something like this:
http://www.maximummotorsports.com/Chassis-Brace-Package-1998-04-Mustang-HT-GT-P313.aspx
Your car will then be in great shape for any further mods (boost and
suspension parts are always great ideas)[/QUOTE well where can I find parts for it? i have been having trouble finding parts within my price bracket it seems like these mod motors are really expensive to build